I can't say I don't agree with that. But... We all know she cares for you. Deeply. I wouldn't expect that to go away. It will take a good deal of her will power to respect your wishes. So perhaps be a bit more gentle with her?

[So says the voice of experience. He just wants this to go well for them both and not have to choose a side or see his family tear itself apart.]

I wouldn't say not to worry. I suggest taking things as they come. The unexpected has happened before. It may again.